Ahhhhh… breastfeeding. It’s a magical – and incredibly frustrating – experience! Baby #2 proved to be quite a challenge in the eating department, as I’m sure is apparent from previous posts. I thought I’d gather it all together in one place for other breastfeeding mamas…
Little A was born in May, and he latched on no problemo! I thought we would be good to go, since he seemed to be drinking swimmingly.
But, those first two weeks turned into a nightmare, as A was always hungry, never slept, and consistently cried. My mom was in town for the birth and those first two weeks, and we tried every trick in the book. No dice. He was NOT a happy camper.
He was so cute when he was mad, though. 😉
After two weeks of screaming, crying (from both of us), and way too many Google searches, I made an appointment to see a Lactation Consultant. Boy, am I glad I did!! The poor little guy was barely eating HALF of what he needed! I am so grateful for the technology we have to determine how many ounces babies eat after a feeding. It’s incredible!
The Lactation Consultant suggested I buy a pump, and start supplementing. So I would feed him, then pump, then feed him a bottle of what I just pumped. Every two hours. Let me write that again in case you missed it. EVERY. TWO. HOURS. For two months, this was the routine, and let me tell you – I was done. In addition to this incredibly time-consuming feeding process, Little A was not digesting it very well. His BMs turned very mucousy and very liquid. This was a sign of dairy-intolerance likely, I was told. So I stopped all dairy. This, however, did not help the eating problem.
Sooooo we switched to formula for awhile. You can read all about that horror here
. Needless to say, formula was not going to work for little A, either, so after 2 weeks, I decided we were going to try breastfeeding again.
YES – I was able to restart my supply!!! It took alot of work, alot of nursing, and alot of sleepless nights; but we did it. Clogged ducts were a HUGE issue for me (check out this post for more info on that), since my supply was increasing, but A wasn’t eating it all to keep it up. I looked and looked for a breast compress that would fit around the whole thing, but no dice! I finally gave up and made my own.
After restarting the supply, we still needed to figure out why he wasn’t eating enough, and why the mucousy stools! I kept off dairy, and that helped significantly with the BMs. It just took a couple of weeks for it to run its course.
As the research queen of my family, I took to Google again to find out what was going on with the little man, and decided it must be a lip tie. So, back to the Lactation Consultant we go, and ask about a lip tie. With a “that could very well be” and a “make an appointment with the ENT”, we were off! The ENT discovered that A did indeed have a lip tie! But not a lower lip tie – an upper lip tie. Hence, the suction issues. One quick snip and we were out the door. I sat in my car breastfeeding the poor baby to help soothe his pain, and then he was fine.
From then on, we have not had one issue (save for dairy) with breastfeeding and are currently going on month 13!! I never – I mean NEVER – thought I’d be one of those mom who not only is breastfeeding past a year, but is also becoming a huge advocate for the #normalizebreastfeeding movement that’s sprung up! I am so very passionate about helping other moms succeed at their breastfeeding goals, and support those who are working at it with all their might. I didn’t think I was going to be able to breastfeed Little A, but here we sit, wondering how long it’ll be before he weans. (Personally, I’m not quite ready yet. These moments are just so very precious.)
I hope this post, and the blog in general, become a great source of encouragement for you moms! Let me know in the comments how your breastfeeding journey is going, and what kinds of topics would be supportive for you!
Thanks for reading,
Milk Mama Heather
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